A Tribute

Late Mr. Terence Ernest Monteiro

Date of joining : 27 July 1963

Classes taught : English Language and Literature in Class VIII

Special Interests : Dramatics, Direction of Senior School and Staff Plays

Spouse Name : Yvonne Joan

Names of children : Christine, Della, Richard, Charmaine & Neil.

My work was mainly in the Jr. School and I worked under the headships of Mrs. Brooks, Mrs. Minto and Mr. Cleophas, till I eventually took over the department in 1976. I also taught English Language and Literature in class VIII for about twelve years.

 

On a number of occasions I have also officiated as Headmaster and have had a wonderful working relationship with all the staff.Yet, it is with the Jr. School staff and students that I have been most comfortable with.

 

The early years were turbulent ones as we had just got over the Chinese incursion of 1962. Many staff had left and the School had to be evacuated to Gopalpur on Sea for a while. In 1965 there was the Pakistani threat of war from North-West.

 

School work was frequently disrupted and plans for evacuation were always in progress during those troubled times. Then came the disaster of 1968, which I have covered at length in an article in Simon Mainwaring’s book, ‘A Century of Children’. The natural calamity caused immense suffering and it took a very long time for normalcy to return.

 

The War for the liberation of Bangladesh greatly inconvenienced staff and students alike. The army was on red alert and we spent many a sleepless night in pitch darkness as blackouts had to be strictly adhered to.

 

In the midst of all this we carried on with classes (whenever we could), co-curricular activities, music and drama which are very part of life on the compound.

 

The Staff Plays were a real scream in those days and still are. The townsfolk made it a point to stay back after an exhausting day at the May Fair to witness the plays. My main interest has been in direction and I have enjoyed directing plays with the staff and the senior students for the last twenty years.

 

In my long association with the Homes, I have naturally worked under several Principals, Headmaster and with numerous colleagues. It has been a wonderful experience and I have cherished every moment. I have found immense satisfaction in working among the underprivileged and less fortunate children and I know that the Homes will grow from strength to strength.

 

A Century of Caring for Children will go on for Centuries to come. Long live Homes!!!

 

Late T.E. Monteiro

Head of Jr. School 

excerpt from Thorough magazine 2000

 

 

My long association with Dr. Graham’s Homes, started out on the 27th of July 1963. I arrived on the compound on a very wet and misty afternoon. The fog was so dense that visibility was very poor.Being my first visit to the hills, I was a bit disillusioned as to whether I had made the correct decision in coming to work up here.

 

I was met at the Main Office by then Cottage Superintendent, Miss Daisy Fowles, who handed me over to a young, impeccably dressed gentleman, Bernard Brooks, who immediately put me at ease with his friendly approach. One question kept bothering me as to what sort of a person the principal was. I put this question to my escort and was surprised and much relieved to know that he was indeed the Acting Principal, as Dr. Minto (then Mr. J.R. Minto) was away in Scotland on furlough. I was taken to Wiston Cottage and introduced to Mr. and Mrs. Roberts, the houseparents, with whom I would be staying. Thirty curious pairs of eyes gave me a warm welcome.

 

That first evening I had tea at Graham House with Mr. Brooks. I was briefed about the school and the backgrounds from which many of our less fortunate children came.I was also told in no uncertain terms that I was never to humiliate a child and never to refer to a child’s background. If ever I was found wanting in this, I should be prepared to leave in twenty-four hours. Having been given the eleventh and twelfth commandment I braced myself to face the challenge before me.

 

The following day was bright and clear and as I made my way along the winding paths to the School buildings and some of the cottages I was truly amazed at the scenic beauty which began to unfold before my very eyes. This setting amidst the majestic grandeur of the Himalayas, has to be seen to be believed. Kalimpong has been and will continue to be “A little bit of heaven”. I have no regrets in coming here.

 

There are so many fond memories of this place that it is difficult to pin-point a few. The homely atmosphere has to be experienced to be believed. The rapport between the Staff and the Students is such that the students never hesitate to confide in or to seek guidance and counseling where necessary.

 

The Cottage System, I found to be a real ‘home away from home’.Children of all castes and creeds coming from different backgrounds life in perfect harmony with each other and no distinction has ever been made between those who have and those who do not