Interview with Late Mr. Monomoy Banerjee      01/06/1936 - 21/08/2007

Managing Member and Secretary to the Board of Management -Dr. Graham’s Homes

 

By: Ruchika Gurung ,Valerie Moraes, Tenzing Paldon

(Excerpt from Thorough Magazine 2006)

 

Q. How has your life in the Homes effected your real life?

Sir: It has effected my real life in a big way. First of all there was the attraction of coming back to the place where I grew up, where I grew up in the sense that I became matured person. On the other hand our only son and daughter-in-law being away at Singapore and my wife teaching in Calcutta, it was quite a dilemma to choose which way to goand there were objections from all quarters except a good doctor who said that if you are going to die, you may die right now, you may not even die in your own house, you may die while traveling. So I thought at this age, I must make a decision, whatever little contribution I can make as an average man to go and to make a bigger ideal my objective in life, so I decided to come back despite being away from my family.

 

Q. What has been your fondest memory in the Homes?

Sir: Actually, If I go back to my childhood, I lost my parents at a very young age but whenever I used to sit down to study my mother who taught me till class five because I didn’t go to any school then told me that I would become the headmaster of our village school and as luck would have it, I one day became the headmaster of this institution and I only remembered her and as a tribute to her and also till date I think which is an unthinkable proposition, being the first non-Christian to come to an institution to be the headmaster as a dream and that dream came true.

 

Q. What was your first reaction when you came to the Homes?

Sir: When I joined from the Victoria’s School, the whole atmosphere was academic and spontaneous. I came to Dr. Graham’s Homes to teach a community a language that didn’t belong to me and also the huge size and non-indian looking children made me first wonder whether I would be able to do so and secondly the first year was a struggle to adjust myself to a different situation from the situation I came from but I stuck on as I am a long distance runner and it paid off.

 

Q. You’ve come from a different locality, a school with different systemns and administration. How do you hope to integrate your innovative ideas into a system which has been there for a 100 years?

Sir: I am absolutely certain that when one goes to a place, the place doesn’t adjust with him but it is one who has to adjust with the place. Fortunately in my case I have the knowledge and experience of this place. This place is still a model in many things in academic as well as pushing forwards in other aspects.

I don’t think that an individual can make any dramatic changes suddenly. To me, except Dr. Minto there

 

 

 

 

 

hasn’t been anyone who has made any revolutionary changes. He is an ideal person to me because he made the barefooted children put on shoes and also made the central kitchen possible through economic conditions. He stressed on the slogan, “To walk this Earth with dignity:. Otherwise there have been many people who have contributed to the system and helped it thrive.

 

Q. What things would you like to change or implement into the school?

Sir. To be very honest with you I don’t think there could be anything immediately changed but at the same time not to change is to follow the path of stagnancy. Our children have changed along with this institution. One should be proud of how the girls and boys passing out of here have attained great success. I have only been an aid to guide then and encourage them. There have been some dropouts for sure, but those with capabilities have made something out of their lives. I don’t have any distinct views that this should be done. I’ve always been a doer rather than a person who tell then not to do it. We should always encourage and help in guiding them.

 

Q. What heights do you think this institute has achieved?

Sir: This school has great possibilities. I believe that the spiritual side to an institution always adds to an encouragement when difficulties arise. This place has faced many difficulties during these 106 years. But as time moves it has to run at a faster pace to compete with other institutions. Therefore, nothing should be taken for granted, the future depends on the hardwork put in by the hardwork of the people who want to achieve greater heights.

 

Q. Why did you plan to join the Homes, was it the location, the innocence of the people or a reason personal to yourself?

Sir: First in 1964 I came to Victoria School Kurseong. Coming from the plains where all is dim and grim. I came to DGH for the sports, the wide open space and lovely surroundings. Wherever I stayed the place was always too small for me but when I came here it was different. I felt that I was a different person altogether. Also, I loved this place and intermingled with everyone.

 

Q. People have had high expectation on you, do you feel you have lived up to them?

Sir: I am a mediocre person and I have never had any regrets, I’ve always looked at the high mountains and I have tried to follow the great people who have left great marks in their lifetime. I may not have made a Tendulkar achievement in my life but somewhere down the line I’ve been a responsible teacher and have takenthings as they’ve come. Its upto people to decide if I have let them down, which I feel I haven’t or I’ve lived upto their expectations.

 

It is with profound grief and sadness I inform you that our beloved Mr Monomoy Banerjee, Managing Member and Secretary to the Board of Management left us for his heavenly abode on Tuesday, 21st August, 2007.   We had a special condolence service in the Katherine Graham Memorial Chapel at 8.30 am, on the same day.

 

We also had a very touching and befitting memorial service on Monday, 3 September, 2007 at 1.30 pm, which was attended by the students of the senior school, teachers, employees, many OGBs & Principals of different schools in Kalimpong.  Mrs Banerjee and her son, Raja, were with us for the service which was followed by the interment of ashes in the Garden of Remembrance.

The children, teachers and employees shared the grief and loss with Mrs Banerjee, her family and friends.    Mrs Banerjee and her son, Raja, left for Calcutta today.

Mr Banerjee will be remembered in a very, very special way by all.
A Sampayo, Principal